Are you aware of your state of being with your horse?
Are you aware of your state of being when you connect with your horse or enter their space?
Do you check in with yourself before you go to connect with the horse?
Do you enter their space as if it is sacred and with love like you might want others to enter your home or space?
They can feel you way before they can see you. They are so aware of their surroundings and if you have a relationship with them than they are going to be extra in tune to your state of being.
To connect from a place of reciprocity checking with these few questions can be a great place to start.
This is not about having to be in a place of positive vibes only when being with horses. It is about an awareness of how you are showing up and honoring that state. For example, if you are having a harder day maybe say that to the horse. Let them know you are feeling tender and that you will show up best you can, and that it might not be 100 % that day. Bringing this awareness in is huge because it gives yourself grace and shows the horse that you have self-awareness.
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